Be selfish with your goals

All too often, well-intentioned whose objectives designed to satiate the others rather than oneself. Although the ' intent is noble, the results will likely lead to bankruptcy. Why? As the title a little provocative ' of this article indicates, you have to be selfish with your goals and select those that mean something to you.

Through segments on the news, magazines, talk shows, radio programs and also the advice of family and friends, we are consistently subjected to a litany of objectives that anyone with half a brain should strive for. If we listen to all the experts, we all need to be perfectly fit individuals and at least two major college under our belt.

Baloney.

Now I do not deny that there are enormous benefits to be physically fit, highly educated or wealthy economically, but let's be honest here-does not need all of the above to live a life created and happy. There are many people a little overweight ' that I am very happy to escape harassment by careful selection of food and ' exercise and instead concentrate on earning money or spending time with family. Similarly, there are many people who physically fit see no need to bring to extraordinary levels of income to be happy, would just as well go ahead with what they need to live.

I firmly believe that all of us should always try to improve ourselves, but not c ' is unique project that we all should follow. What might be important for me (commercial and management) may not be important for you, and vice versa. For this reason, when you are determining the goals that you want to pursue you should always lock the desires of others and choose goals that are dear to your heart.

This sounds incredibly selfish, but obviously I'm not arguing that adopts a goal that would hurt others, and ideally engaged in a relationship with you and your significant other goals were common parts. But when push comes to shove, if you choose a target for someone else, rather than yourself you can do yourself a huge damage.

We should always strive to improve ourselves, but not c ' is unique project that we all should follow. What might be important for me (commercial and management) may not be important for you, and vice versa. For this reason, when you are determining the goals that you want to pursue you should always lock the desires of others and choose goals that are dear to your heart.

This sounds incredibly selfish, but obviously I'm not arguing that adopts a goal that would hurt others, and ideally engaged in a relationship with you and your significant other goals were common parts. But when push comes to shove, if you choose a target for someone else, rather than yourself you can do yourself a huge damage.

Take, for example, weight loss. Many overweight people lead a happy and successful despite the weight, you don't have to be as fit as a fiddle to be happy. Let's say that one of these individuals a little overweight ' decides one day eventually buckle under the company's constant harping about the benefits of weight loss and start a diet program. What would happen?

Chances are very high l ' individual would adjust its diet and get off to a good start. Almost all of us are able to lose a few pounds during the first couple weeks, especially since much of the initial weight loss is the ' water. But this time there's a good chance the diet will be rather unhappy, and this unhappiness will fester over time. Eventually, when the body stops ' lose weight and shifts in water the fat loss, weight loss slows to about a pound or two a week.

For the whole diet dieting moral and optimistic Outlook on life will suffer, and this could also affect other sectors had already been successful with, e.g. his relationship with his family or his business. In the end he will close his diet with disgust, and immediately after his return to old habits of eating not only wants to earn what he lost he'll also earn even more! Diets play havoc with the body's metabolism, so most of the time a person quits a diet will eventually weigh much more than they have ever dieted for starters.

Many overweight people lead a happy and successful despite the weight, you don't have to be as fit as a fiddle to be happy. Let's say that one of these individuals a little overweight ' decides one day eventually buckle under the company's constant harping about the benefits of weight loss and start a diet program. What would happen?

Chances are very high l ' individual would adjust its diet and get off to a good start. Almost all of us are able to lose a few pounds during the first couple weeks, especially since much of the initial weight loss is the ' water. But this time there's a good chance the diet will be rather unhappy, and this unhappiness will fester over time. Eventually, when the body stops ' lose weight and shifts in water the fat loss, weight loss slows to about a pound or two a week.

For the whole diet dieting moral and optimistic Outlook on life will suffer, and this could also affect other sectors had already been successful with, e.g. his relationship with his family or his business. In the end he will close his diet with disgust, and immediately after his return to old habits of eating not only wants to earn what he lost he'll also earn even more! Diets play havoc with the body's metabolism, so most of the time a person quits a diet will eventually weigh much more than they have ever dieted for starters.

Clearly the weight loss is a fantastic lens, which can provide a lifetime of benefits, but not for everyone! If you're not keen on this objective, it could actually cause damage to other areas of your life, when stress is added and the motivation and morale drops due to changing your lifestyle, and then to add insult to injury just might end up being heavier than you were you had not even tried to adopt the standards of society.

The ' example above applies to every single goal under the Sun. Many people love the world of business and all its risks and challenges, but others prefer to avoid stressful situations and problems that all men d ' business face. Perhaps you prefer a lifestyle of the middle class, stay physically fit and enjoy hiking or camping trips with a partner during the weekend during the time of the business-oriented are probably overtime.

Choose only the objectives that are consistent with your desires and needs, because the selection of an aim incompatible that supporters of the company or the family is a formula guaranteed virtually for failure, and can very easily do more harm than good.