Success is a journey and along the way, we need to correct the route to unlearn the behavior that derails us and invite to a new behavior to continue our success. If you feel you want to change your success, a measure of your current key behaviors.
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Listening
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Listen to ' is not a passive activity. ' and unfair to the person who is talking about having a person there in body but not in the mind. Precisely because we are the quiet person, does not mean that we are listening. As a listener must be kept in the present and in the message of speakers in the right context. Is not the time to think about what to have for lunch or your next witty comeback. Be fair to the speaker and have a clear and open mind.
L ' active listening requires us to put aside our own agenda, using our best language skills, and takes the ' energy present. The best gift to yourself and to the speaker if the energy ' is not available to say so. Yet, thanks to forms of perception management that we learned from the company, usually do not provide this honest feedback. So, we listen passively, as fiction, as a child, to hear, and say something fast, something that we want to hear, just so we can move forward.
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Choice
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The ability of choice is the energy that we send and ' is exactly what the Universe sends us back '. No choice is a choice too. I think we are where we are today because of ' cumulative effect of all our choices. We have made thousands of choices every day and that control our lives from those choices. Have the ability to choose is equal power. When you choose, you give someone else the ability to make choices for you, whatever they are, and give up any power with it. Once you realize that you have the power of choice, life happens to you, not you!
Feel your power. It is a powerful resource for success.
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The internal dialogue
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All day, every day, we talk about ourselves. Sometimes we talk ourselves out loud. When we talk to ourselves, what we're really doing is giving commands to our subconscious. The subconscious mind is a very powerful tool and can execute his orders efficiently and effectively.
Feel your power. It is a powerful resource for success.
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The internal dialogue
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All day, every day, we talk about ourselves. Sometimes we talk ourselves out loud. When we talk to ourselves, what we're really doing is giving commands to our subconscious. The subconscious mind is a very powerful tool and can execute his orders efficiently and effectively.
We were to hear ourselves talk for so long, we just learned to hear past. The noise of our inner dialogue and can usually only if you can hear her scream or if someone points out.
This argument tells us what we need, as we want, and what will and won't do to get it. We assume, we don't know what we want, until you start to listen. Until you start to stop long enough to ask what is our inner desires or needs dialogue.
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Success starts here
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These are the three keys harder to act our way to success. You're listening to yourself? You're listening to people who are already successful? All excellent questions to meditate on occasionally. To check in with our self often to see where we stand on them. They are the keys that are evolving, as we mature and not imprisoned. They require gentle nudging, gentle understanding, kindness to all.
(C) Copyright, Catherine Franz, 2003, 2004. All rights reserved.
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